How To Say Welcome, How To Be Appreciated
Speak With Skills,
Work With Method,
Success In Your Hand
We are living in an “open” society,
each individual cannot exist independently,
must communicate with each other,
whether it is intellectual labor,
manual labor or other professions in society.
But we are also living in a “cold indifference” society,
between people it is increasingly difficult to communicate with each other,
people are always on guard,
using a dense outer shell to cover their hearts and minds. his soul.
So, communication becomes a highly technical field.
Those who do not understand the secret hidden in it,
it will be difficult to avoid obstacles,
difficult to be accepted by others;
but there are people who know how to rely on their inherent skills
to get advantages in everything,
easily being welcomed by others.
Therefore, if we want to have a good relationship,
we must learn how to communicate,
know how to talk and work.
The book How to Say Welcome,
How to be appreciated provides readers with practical and useful methods.
Read this book and you will know:
how to show your strengths through skillful talking and working;
how to make a good impression on others just from the first meeting;
how to pass the slick interview;
how to make the opposite sex fall in love with you at first sight…
There are countless tricks in the book that will teach you these things.
Currently, on the market,
there are many books on life skills,
books on speaking and practice are also quite a lot,
but only a few books have real methods and practical skills,
this book is in that few.
The book has completely dropped the clichés,
dogmas to directly teach you practical skills.
Talking is not difficult,
almost everyone knows how to talk.
However, there are people who speak extremely intelligently and energetically,
while there are those who speak without standards,
causing discomfort to others.
Speaking and not being able to speak,
there is a huge difference between them.
Do not believe it?
Take a look at the two examples below:
In winter, the window is open,
and the cold wind is constantly blowing into the room.
In this situation,
a husband will blame his wife:
“What are you doing?
Why can’t I feel cold?
Why not close the window?”
There is also a husband who said to his wife:
“Wife, I’m afraid you’re cold, I’ll close the window!”
If you were a husband,
what would you choose to say to your wife?
What will the result be?
I think you can imagine.
There is a friend in the car who wants to smoke.
Person A in the car said:
“Can you put the medicine out? I can not bear.”
Person B in the car said:
“You smoke less!
Especially smoking in the car,
it’s not good for your health.”
Who do you think a smoker would want to hear?
Thereby it can be seen that knowing how to speak
and not being able to speak are two completely different issues,
the results are also completely different.
When the content of your talk contains the feelings that
-you think for the other person,
the other person will know your mind,
want to hear what you say,
and then like you even more.
On the contrary,
if you speak without thinking,
without paying attention to the tone,
it is easy to offend others.
“A saying makes people laugh,
but a sentence also makes people uncomfortable.”
Whether the matter is big or small,
knowing how to speak will help you succeed,
or will make your success come faster,
even play a decisive role in important moments.
In today’s society,
people who appear to be shy,
and honest will often fall into awkward situations in communication.
Some people have profound knowledge,
but because of their lack of communication skills,
they are not loved by everyone.
Some people perform very well at work but cannot put into words
or present their ideas to their superiors and colleagues,
thereby losing many promotion opportunities.
So, no matter what,
you have to learn how to “speak”.
Next, we must learn how to work,
because doing well is confirmed by others.
So, to do well, what should we pay attention to?
First, we must have clear work goals,
clear goals and then have the right direction.
Second, we must have coherent thinking,
from coherent thinking to building a scientific and practical action plan.
When these things are clear,
we must be confident,
believe that we can do well.
When faced with unsatisfactory things,
we must not be discouraged and discouraged,
not “where we fall, lie there”.
Every mistake is a lesson for us to learn from and gain more experience.
We must know how to promote the inherent strength,
make the impossible possible.
In order to do something in society,
speaking and doing is a lesson that we must cultivate first.
However, different people’s “achievements” will differ by heaven and earth.
Good people speak well
doing, everything can be like a kite meets the wind,
like a fish meets water,
everything is as it should be;
the opposite will be like the wind against the opposite direction,
like a boat stranded on land,
everything is extremely difficult.
Society is extremely complex,
wanting to be successful is not as simple as we imagine.
Why do some people who are highly educated but have many obstacles in life?
Why do some people have a normal personality but have a brilliant career?
A huge part depends on your speaking skills.
How to deal with people and how to communicate at work need skills.
This is also a lesson for everyone
when stepping out into society to achieve success.
In short, only when you understand the meaning of dealing with people,
master communication and work skills,
can you make friends love,
and trust customers,
social recognition and make success closer to you!
We also believe that,
all of you who finish reading this book,
your ability to communicate
and work will be increasingly improved,
and success will also come easier.